Where we just take hours and release everything on each other. Doesn’t matter if we give advice to each other. I would love to have someone I’m totally comfortable with. Someone that wouldn’t judge me no matter what. We would take hours at night, on the phone just pouring our hearts and minds out to each other… and in the end, we’ll just end up laughing. I want that… wait no. I need that.
Oftentimes, people take each other for granted. They think that the other person can read their thoughts and understands what’s going on. If the person knew your mind, the misunderstand would’ve never occurred. So take time to talk things out with your loved ones, tell each other what’s going on. Because miscommunication is a barrier to healthy relationships. Always remember that.
When you’re always put down by people you care about, you can’t just sit there and say “It’s fine. I’m okay.” In the end it all builds up and you start to think less of yourself. You think you’re not good enough. And it’s not healthy. It’ s not helping you. You need to smile. Because you deserve…
You both have to try. You both have to put effort in. Not just the guy put more effort than the girl, you both have to put in the same amount. It’s not fair if there’s one trying and the other one’s sitting on their ass not appreciating anything. If he/she takes up extra time to visit you, don’t just sit there. Realize that they love you. Be grateful that you have a significant other that cares about you. Be aware that you’re worth his/her time, then return the love.
& maybe a happy ending doesn't include a guy, maybe it's you on your own, picking up the pieces & starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is just moving on. Maybe the happy ending is this, knowing after all the unreturned calls,brokenhearts, thru all the pain & embarrassment, you never lose hope.
Sometimes you have to run away, and see who will follow. Sometimes you have to take a step back, and see who’s still standing by your side. Sometimes you have to make wrong choices, to see who’ll straighten you out. Sometimes you have to speak softly, and see who’s listening. Sometimes you have to let the person you love go, and see if they love you enough to come back.
We get jealous, we will hate that mother fucker who spams your facebook, we tend to assume things, our imaginations go wild. Every second you take to reply, thousands of things goes through our heads ; who you talking to? Is it that mother fucker bitch? We start assuming, and this is when we get insecure. But then.. we’ll try comfort ourselves, we’ll think back to our conversations and make ourself believe you ain’t that type of guy. So don’t disappoint us.